Year of Our Lord June 1964 –
May 1965; In my mind, I can see us walking the corridors
of our beloved Meycauayan Institute for the last year as a high school
student. The girls in their white blouses and blue skirts with its
pleats and creases that we painstakingly tried to preserve to the
extent of preferring to stand rather than having those pleats unaligned
and bobby white socks, shoes I can not see. Perhaps I never looked
down that long for the fear that I will bump into somebody and lay
flat on my rear end. The boys, handsome, gangly, young full of vigor,
sex appeal (they believed) with their khaki pants and white shirts
and sometimes with their PMT dress uniforms. I am just imagining if
we were not required to wear uniforms, will some of us be bold enough
to bare our midriffs? (We had the body then to carry the skimpiest
outfit, which would have shamed Brittany Spears!!) I think not our
parents will not allow us to do so!
The girls in three yards of skirt over a starched
petticoat, ponytails moving side to side or our bob do’s shaking;
and the boys with a swinging swagger that only a boy can do; the corridors
we walked leisurely between classes. Those of us who were a partner
to what we call then a “love team” are silently hoping
that they will see their lovely dovey, to exchange a smile, a secret
signal, a sidelong glance and sometimes to exchange information re
– tests. Those of us who were unlucky (???) to have no “love
team” at all survived immersing ourselves in our books. The
sidelong, soulful, suffering looks of the real “unlucky”
ones whose crushes did not reciprocate their ‘amore’.
With baby powder as the girls’ only allowed cosmetic help to
improve our looks we were still pretty because of our youth. No dental
braces to straighten our crooked teeth and yet with smiles that bedazzled
the love of our youth – puppy loves. The only two instances
that I used real make up was, Junior- Senior Prom and at Lyric Studios
for our annual pictures.
The physical changes that transpire within
the four years of high school was caught forever in the Bamboo, those
are the faces we remember or vaguely remember, smooth, smiling, open,
eager faces, those are the faces which remind us of the way we were.
Each tiny flick of the brow, that little smile etched in time we remember,
we cherish every moment spent together in MI. Graduation came and
the same faces wore a mixture of pride, happiness, hope – despair;
pride for the diploma we had worked so hard for, happiness mostly
for our family for finishing high school, despair with the thought
of our beloved friend that we may not see again, hope for the future
that lay wide ahead. We were afraid; we were hopeful; we were young!!!
We were not sure of what was in store for us and what road we have
to take to achieve our goals and make our dreams a reality. Then!!!
After high school some of us meet by chance
or purposely and oh boy did we change!!! In college and years after,
I see familiar faces occasionally and the traces of the youthful us
can still be seen but some had completely changed physically!! The
tall, skinny Teresita Castro turned out to be a very, curvy Tessie
when I saw her last in the early ‘90’s. Familiar faces
that had changed with the time, some still smooth with traces of laugh
lines, some totally different from the face in the Bamboo, but, mostly
the girls retained the exuberance of their youth, the boys distinguished
with the lack of hair or a sprinkling of salt in their once pepper
dark shock of hair. The girls’ hair, who knows, with Clairol,
L’oreal, and Revlon around, we still have our hair or a change
of color. Allow us the privilege boys; unless you would want to go
to the “torture” we go through to have the hair we want
to show the world!!! Some have the same hair color and number of strands
of youth, amazing!!! Yes indeed, the long winding, sometimes bumpy,
sometimes smooth roads that we tread brought us life experiences that
had left their mark on our once young, innocent faces and in our souls
and spirit. And Now!!!
Years after high school when classmates/school
mates reconnect, one of the foremost questions asked is “ How
is your family?”(After secretly {it is rude to stare or even
ask,} scanning the physical change, of course!!!). Human as we, are
we instinctively proned to be one with another and thus we follow
(or not) the pretext of the accepted normal pattern of life: high
school, college, work and then raising a family.
To a greater majority family means man-woman
exchanging marriage vows and a year or some years hence a child or
two or more. But what is the meaning of family? Through the years
of my early and “later” adulthood, I had come across several
definitions of family and the one that struck me most apt is a definition
by one of our “mi classmates” Gerry, F – ather,
M - other, I, L - ove, Y- ou!!
For some of us, marriage and family go hand
and hand for others it may not, but all the same, we are proud of
our family!! Our better half, children/grandchildren, our joy and
our pride. You can almost feel and touch these emotions in the pictures
of us now!!! Come share with us your family and forever be!!! And
for those, who haven’t found their “kasukat na tungtong”(yet),
share us what a score plus nineteen had dealt you. I know too that
time had left its marks thus making the “boys” we knew
more distinguished looking, and the “girls” more beautiful
than ever!! Strangers we might have been for the past 39 odd years
after graduation from our beloved Meycauayan Institute, let us be
strangers no more but friends forever and to do that we must see each
other as we see our selves now.
“ If a picture paints a thousand words,
then why can’t I paint you? ” Yes, I agree only you my
beloved classmates on MI 1965 can show us how mother nature had painted
you since we last met. Show us the pictures!!!! (Pictures
should be at least 540x375pixels or higher resolutions. E-mail the
pictures to rmalinis@sbcglobal.net
).